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What's the point of writing down rules, if mods just do what they want? But I suppose that's the risk you take when you call someone a liar in a small community; they might be a mod.

Edit: I'm not trying to say that mods suck, they perform a useful and often thankless job. Just that it can be difficult for small communities to get a healthy number of good mods, which can become a problem.

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[–] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My favorite part of this haranguing is how y'all don't hesitate to declare I'm subhuman and due for getting bones broken, but I'm the rude and hostile one for saying please and thanks.

This is the rudest thing you could think to say to someone, and it's over nothing.

I can't demean your character worse than you've just done, yourself.

[–] eltimablo@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'll take the hit just to watch you roll around in your own verbal diarrhea

My favorite part of this haranguing is how y’all don’t hesitate to declare I’m subhuman

Please point out the exact sentence, or set of sentences, where I said that.

This is the rudest thing you could think to say to someone, and it’s over nothing.

Good, perhaps you might start to understand now that you've been on the receiving end of your own behavior.

You've also not addressed anyone who's mentioned your incredibly condescending, snide tone. Literally nobody. Not even to be dismissive about it. You can ignore your problem all you want, but the fact is that the way you talk means you could be reading me a document saying that I've just been given $10 billion and I'd still fucking hate you. You asked why you were treated poorly, people answered unanimously, and you don't even have the wherewithal to consider the point that everyone is trying to pound through your brow ridge.

You're the problem. Your behavior is the problem. The way you talk is, you fuckin guessed it, absolutely the problem.

You got your answer. Accept it or don't, just do it somewhere else because nobody fucking likes you.

[–] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works -1 points 1 year ago

'You were very rude disagreeing with that person,' said a whole bunch of people wrong about me disagreeing with that person.

So I ask how I'm supposed to de-escalate such confusion, and get shit like this.

Yeah can't imagine why I'm not endlessly thankful for this feedback.