I prefer the terms hetero and cishets
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Neither are good
Even if one is "less bad" according to some made up metric you decided on, why would you want to stoop to the lesser of two evils? Why don't we all just not use someone's sexuality against them?
What's offensive is using someone's sexuality as an insult as stated in the OP. It doesn't matter how you try to justify it. It's a dick move. I don't care if you're gay. I'm also gay. It doesn't give anyone the right to be an asshole.
I'm literally just saying don't insult anyone based on their sexuality. That's it. Nothing more nothing less. The rest you are making up in your mind. It's wild to me how a conversation can go from "don't use someones sexuality as an insult" to "you don't care that gay people are getting executed" without me saying literally anything about straight people or gay people.
Lol imagine trying to take the moral high ground by saying you hope I fall off a cliff. Nice ๐
Both can be funny in the right context. Furthermore, using "straight" as an insult doesn't uphold any kind of systemic oppression, so I have a hard time reading it as anything other than a joke.
The most problematic thing about it is that it is reminiscent of homophobia, but y'all gotta learn to make the difference. Giving bigoted straight people a taste of their own medicine in a context where it cannot possibly hurt them (unlike actual homophobia) is funny.