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Welcome to today’s daily kōrero!

Anyone can make the thread, first in first served. If you are here on a day and there’s no daily thread, feel free to create it!

Anyway, it’s just a chance to talk about your day, what you have planned, what you have done, etc.

So, how’s it going?

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[–] Splenetic@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I try to. I started because I got so annoyed with others failing to do this.

However, I still fail at it often enough to occasionally embarrass myself.

[–] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 3 points 1 year ago

Don't do it for them, do it for you.

It makes you more aware of your bias, and thus hopefully will consider the other side and its merits. I always remember the quote (though I can;t remember who said it) "no one is the villain in their own story", there will be a reason why they believe what they do, sometimes understanding will permit a dialog where friction will only cause more friction.