I'm a straight man. If you think I'm being unfair to men I'm not. I'm just capable of looking at myself and others critically and fairly and not bullshitting myself by pretending to cold and saintly virtue. To be without passion or drive is neither virtuous or desirable. I don't need to research men to understand what it is to be a man especially a young man. I'm sorry you are so confused that you can't even have this conversation maturely.

[–] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

If that's how you feel about the people around you and you can't have a relationship with a woman without seeing sex as the end goal, the only person that needs maturing here is you bud.