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I am a week and half from having bottom surgery. The surgery went perfectly and the healing is going way better then my doctor normal see. I just wanted to come on here and say ladies thinking about surgery feel free to ask your questions?

Surgery: Penile Inversion Vaginoplasty

Surgeon: Dr. Gerhard Mundinger

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[โ€“] ShaunaTheDead@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm assuming based on your username that you're a transgender woman, so on that assumption, I'm curious what type of surgery you opted for? I ask because I'm still debating what I should get when I get my surgery done.

I'm going back and forth on whether I care enough about having depth or not. If everything was equal and there was no increased recovery time and dilating, I would definitely go for depth just because it gives me the most realistic experience and options... but it seems terribly inconvenient for something that I doubt I'll ever make any use of since I'm a lesbian and have very little interest in penetrative sex.

Anyway, just curious to hear your thoughts, and congrats on the surgery!

[โ€“] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I got Penile Inversion Vaginoplasty. I got amazing depth with mine. (This is not always the case and if I don't keep up on dilation then I will lose it). I'm getting married to a man and in my case I have more depth then needed but plan on making sure I don't lose any