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[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

My god there are way too many comments in here trying to normalize pedophilia. Disgusting. Pathetic.

These are people that need serious psychiatric care, not acceptance or to be included in the LGBTQ+ community. There is absolutely nothing to compare between them and any group within the LGBTQ+ community. Nothing.

Combatting CP is a hard enough task for the poor bastards that have to do it. There does not need to be AI produced images in the mix.

Lemmy, do better.

[–] dsemy@lemm.ee 37 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I think pedophiles should be treated with compassion, as being a pedophile doesn’t make someone a sexual predator.

IMO the stigma against pedophiles worsens their mental state and could push them to become sexual predators. This is just a guess though.

However, I do think “treatment” of pedophilia with generated CP should only be tried after conducting proper research into the actual effectiveness of it (maybe with general sex offenders and regular porn). In the end I think the top priority should be to minimize the amount of pedophiles who are also predators.

[–] captain_spork@startrek.website 29 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Not that I think they should be included in LGBTQ+ but as someone who is bisexual I feel they're not as far from us as you seemingly believe. Why wouldn't we compare them? Both are sexual attractions that deviate from the norm. A pedophile didn't choose to be a pedophile anymore than I chose to be bi.

Growing up in a conservative household and town was a miserable experience for me. I hated myself, didn't want to accept it, and felt utterly alone. Now think about how much worse it must be to realize you're attracted to children. You have zero allies, you have zero people you can talk to, and a lot of people hate you merely for existing and/or want you dead. From where I stand their experience echoes my experience being LBGTQ+ quite heavily. Except over my lifetime LBGTQ+ acceptance grew quite rapidly and my husband was the light at the end of the tunnel. But pedophiles will never get that, probably ever. I feel nothing but sympathy for their situation.

And what "serious psychiatric care" do you even think there is for it? Unless you also believe in gay conversion camps, we have nothing. We don't even really know how sexuality actually works in the brain, we definitely aren't anywhere close to being able to treat it.

[–] cucumber_sandwich@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago

And what "serious psychiatric care" do you even think there is for it? Unless you also believe in gay conversion camps, we have nothing. We don't even really know how sexuality actually works in the brain, we definitely aren't anywhere close to being able to treat it.

There's programmes that focus on how to deal with it in a societally acceptable way, mainly on how not to become a predator. That's a pretty good start.

[–] Ataraxia@sh.itjust.works -5 points 1 year ago

Excuse me what? I'm pansexual and fucking what? I'm nothing like a kiddy diddler. I don't revel in the agony inflicted onto a child. These people get off on violence and destroying people. These victims are never the same again. That's why parents catching someone doing this to a child will kill the perpetrator and nobody would fault them. Pedos are criminally insane if anything.

[–] mo_lave@reddthat.com 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm trying to be better by not treating all pedophiles as child-abusers-in-waiting. Humans are capable of not acting on base immoral instincts.

[–] Skwerls@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 year ago

Right, not everyone who wants to kill someone is a murderer.