what do you say about the guy I linked to in the last comment? You don't think hexbear's obnoxiousness might be a reaction to years of talking to people like that? You don't think maybe at this point they expect it and that's why they're flippant?

not immediately look for reasons to take the least charitable interpretation of someone's point

look at how your own instance talks, this is absurdly hypocritical.

[–] liquidparasyte@pawb.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't care what comes after this. I still read it, but I don't care.

Cool, I suppose I shouldn't take any of your arguments seriously then.

"You knew some people, therefore hexbear is those people."

No, I knew some people who showed bad behavior, and Hexbear users are showing similar behavior.

what do you say about the guy I linked to in the last comment?

Yeah, they're somewhat obnoxious. It's annoying to see communists lumped in widely with fascists. They aren't 14-year-old Stalin-fancam sea-lion-posting-in-every-Lemmy-instance obnoxious though.

You don't think hexbear's obnoxiousness might be a reaction to years of talking to people like that? You don't think maybe at this point they expect it and that's why they're flippant?

Maybe it is a reaction to to people like that. I do not give a fuck. Unless they're picking beef with long-storied rivals, everyone else has been here for 2-3 months, maybe less. We are not the collective animus of every anti-communist they've ever met. We're people here to form link aggregator communities, and it's unacceptable for them to treat people here as punching bags for their past frustrations just because they have a bit of social power here.

There's a wide range of people with political opinions here, and left-wing populism is quite popular here. If they changed their engagement, more people would be amenable to their community. But if they insist on acting the fool, they will eventually be sent back to the circus.

look at how your own instance talks, this is absurdly hypocritical.

Talk like what, furries? They're mostly nerds, not much political discourse there. Small twinge of liberalism/leftism maybe.

[–] mycorrhiza@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

for past frustrations

they're not past frustrations. look around. In fact, look at yourself, with your "I already know what hexbears think and why without ever talking to them" dismissal. That is frustrating, right now in the present, because you don't know what you don't know. Hexbears are well-read and have detailed, serious takes, which they generally do not post outside their own instance because no one gives a shit and no one will read them. You actually can't just understand them at a glance based on vibes and some people you knew once. And it's obviously arrogant to think you can. And that arrogance is fucking frustrating, especially since you don't even realize you're being arrogant and you're bewildered that people react poorly to it.