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[–] olav@theweird.space -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@Franzia @CaptFeather these are things you say to your therapist, so you can talk these thoughts out and sort out what's positive, and what's negative, and why you feel this way. And learning to identify the things you might say that make people around you uncomfortable or worse

Because you've seen here you're making people uncomfortable at best

Trust me. I rarely say the things that go through my head. Not like this, I couldn't witness it. There are just things one shouldn't say out loud

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You're ELI5 but I already said I had success in therapy.

identify the things you might say that make people around you uncomfortable

therapy didnt teach me social skills or masking. As far as I have been told, masking is worse for my mental health.

There are just things one shouldn't say out loud

I literally said I would like take care of this artist rather than harm her. And then I said I have to be protective because people frequently trust me. Listen I know I sound a bit crazy but see past the aesthetics at the real arguments I am making.

[–] olav@theweird.space 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@Franzia okay, let's ELI5. one of the things you should get ot of therapy is social skills. Specifically filters. I never said masking. Masking is not acknowledging how you feel, it's fake till you make it, as they say. Filters is not saying every thing that goes thru your head out loud. Not filtering is nearly as bad.
Here, you want to be a participant. Watch the goings on and swoop in as a white knight except dress her scantily and take photos. There's little difference

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

theres little difference

Dog she is naked and bleeding with a gun in her hand pointed at her head