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I had my assessment yesterday and I'm upset about all the things I forgot to say. Did this happen to you? (lemm.ee)
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I felt ok after the appointment but today I remembered we didn't talk about the problems I have keeping a job.

He only mentioned work once to ask if can comfortably discuss work in a work context and I said that would be fine. But I was only thinking about discussing a programming algorithm or something with no conflicts. I've actually had lots of trouble with conflicts at work, or getting upset and walking out of jobs. I've only had one job I kept more than a few months.

Also he didn't ask anything about living independently. It feels like we spent the whole session talking about socializing.

I'm worried he's going to think I don't have any problems in my life apart from socializing and that's not important enough for a diagnosis and I won't be able to access any support.

Is it normal to feel like this the day after?

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[–] sature@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago

It definitely did happen to me as well! But yeah, the evaluator keyed in on a few things that I wasn’t actually expecting them to. There are things you didn’t communicate, but intended to, and things you didn’t intend to communicate but probably did anyway.

In general, the “waiting period” was anxiety-producing for me. Just trying to not think about it was the best remedy!