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Those of you who are married, how do you go about privacy if your wife or husband does not care? (lemm.ee)

submitted 1 year ago by MagneticFusion@lemm.ee to c/privacy@lemmy.ml

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I have always been curious about this. Did you get them to use other services or did they stubbornly refuse and you just accepted it? I am talking using Chrome, using Windows, using social media like Tiktok or Facebook or Instagram, etc. Bonus points if you have kids because that is even more work in the privacy realm

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[–] Kangie@lemmy.srcfiles.zip 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And that's materially different from having to join Discord/Teams/Facebook because that's where someone you need to speak with communicates with how?

[–] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

SMS doesn't require you to join any specific service except the phone service you're already paying for.

[–] Kangie@lemmy.srcfiles.zip 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

And OP was talking about not answering 'google chat'. Calling that SMS is comparing apples to potatoes.

[–] VegaLyrae@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Yes, this is correct.

I could not have used SMS for most of the day since I worked on the top floor of a multi-level basement. I had wifi and a VPN though.

At the time I moved to signal, Google Message, or chat or whatever was being replaced with Allo and Duo and everyone was pretty un-jazzed about the whole thing.

[–] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sure, but OP and the people they want to connect with don't have to force their choice of proprietary app into others when there's a universal solution that works for all phones.

[–] VegaLyrae@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah I'm not super happy with Signal's level of openness, but I also wouldn't call it proprietary. It is open source and I could run my own server if I really wanted to, but that would just make it harder.

At the time we were moving from a walled garden to one of 3 encrypted OSS solutions, and I had all of them until we naturally coalesced on one.

SMS at the time didn't work due to not having cell service, and while we "have" RCS now to solve that issue, I don't know anyone who uses it.