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I regret getting in contact with my Aunty to settle things.
She tells people that I’m the nice one I’m the family but I just choose not to get into conflicts.
She texts me this.
“I haven’t got any replies to my emails. You better tell your cousins to hurry up to have settlement by blah blah date”
Dunno if I’m reading into too much but it does t sound very nice and feels like she’s pressuring me to rush them.
Family conflict over property issues is the worst. Brings out a real nasty side of people. I hope like hell it'll go smoothly in my family
I’d like to see it resolved soon but not with messages like that. It’s very demanding I feel and she’s supposed to be the executor of the will.
There’s already been major conflict in the family with the contesting of the will and some legalities that had to play out and she dumps it all on me because I’ve chosen to stay neutral as much as I can.
It just takes one person to make wills and estates hell .