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Wait... what? What's the context I am missing here?
Okay so:
You made a post crying transphobia about that mod for banning you from their communities
The targeted harassment of the mod started right after they replied to your post about them, dispersing your points in a reasonable manner
The harassment account was crying plenty of transphobia too, just as you do all the time
In the same breath, they were both misgendering the mod and calling them a "cissy"
The "homophobia" (mentions of sucking dick) was disproved on the other post when a user posted a screenshot of your sock account also saying they'd suck dick (weird how the sock account doubles down on homophobia right after that, pretty convenient that you'd use that as an excuse)
You are known to make sock accounts like HonouraryDragon@lemmy.nz that only reply to aggressively defend you
What's with the obsession with dragons? Like no one even thinks about dragons that much whether they love or hate them. Going either way as a specific character trait is incredibly telling
You have already had posts removed on this accounts for encouraging both murder and suicide, just like the sock account did
You have already had posts removed on this account for misgendering people just to spite them, just like the sock account did
TLDR: It's incredibly unlikely that it wasn't you.
To add:
That's literally a lie. A mod banning you from like 4 communities is not a harassment campaign.
I may be newer and not as active here so I don't know the whole story but from what I've seen looking in the modlog buttonmash has a point, drag's behavior over the past few days is extremely unacceptable, drag has said some awful things that should never be said to anyone, let alone fellow trans people.
However some people have been giving drag a hard time over drag's pronouns, and... you know what... Honestly, shut up! Who the fuck are you to complain about another person's pronoun preferences. You're losers that's what. Maybe drag has done some things that aren't okay but that's no excuse to invalidate drag's pronouns, fuck you and everyone everyone who said that to or about this person. You're not real allies even if you claim to be, you literally invalidate fellow trans people. Seriously fuck you!
Drag may not have done all of them but drag definitely did do some of them. Drag has made racist comments and also has encouraged violence on several occasions. But that's neither here nor there. Everyone makes mistakes, that doesn't justify what was done to drag.
Hey, I hear what you are saying, but using the correct pronouns for someone is not just being "supportive", it's acting like a human fucking being. The person you're replying to is literally saying drag did the wrong thing, so all I can assume your response means is "I can choose to ignore someone's pronouns if I think they're a bad person". Which is super fucked up. For example, I think Caitlin Jenner is a complete and total piece of shit, but I still use her correct pronouns because I'm not an asshole. This is coming from someone who, similar to drag, uses 'pup' as a neopronoun, Grow Up!