Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.

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PTB - Power-Tripping Bastard: The commenter agrees with you this was a PTB mod.
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So I get banned from lemmy.ml What now? (lemm.ee)

submitted 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) by sag@lemm.ee to c/yepowertrippinbastards@lemmy.dbzer0.com

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cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/45204357

Yesterday, I created my account on Lemmy.ml because I want to become mod on !stardewvalley@lemmy.ml. And I posted this comic on !stardewvalley@lemmy.ml It's SDV game cutscene where Shane a NPC go watch Sports game with you kiss you accidentily but It was part of that event also player kiss Shane(NPC) back. Here's video for more context. And someone claimed it have SA(Sexual Assualt) From Hexbear Ofcourse. So, I should delete it. I said it was a part of game cutscene. And If main player doesn't love the Shane(NPC) then they don't need to complete this event. And Just as a sarcasm I added Yeah we shoule delete this entire community because this game is Woke like Woke Detector Steam Group said. That user think I am some anti-woke dickhead something like that IDK. And tell me to Kill My Self. What I do now? I wanted on become mod on .ml because community was already well established. I message dessaline but I am sure he will not unbanned me. :(

Did I really did something wrong? I don't know If I really did something wrong.

Link for that comic if embed doesn't work.

Create one lemm.ee !stardewvalley@lemm.ee

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[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 22 points 4 weeks ago

When that scene happens, the player's avatar and Shane are already dating. He is not kissing some random person, but someone who already showed romantic interest towards him.

And while the sprites are ambiguous, the kiss is clearly on the cheek, until the player avatar returns the gesture and makes it a French kiss. Give this a check, around 13:08.

All this context is widely understood by players, because they looove to talk about those heart scenes. And the comic is read within this context.

So while I agree that sexual assault is not just rape, this is simply not sexual assault by any account. There's no violation of consent and, funnily enough, the sexualisation comes from the players' avatar (a woman in this case, but it could be also a man - the scene plays identically in both cases), by turning it into a French kiss.