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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

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[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Heh it's actually very similar for me too:

Orgasms and food are a waste of time that just makes me feel uncomfortable and I only waste my time with it when it's absolutely necessary. And even then, the faster it's over, the better (even if I might enjoy it in the moment).

People keep saying it's the best thing ever and i'm incredibly confused by that

[–] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It used to be like that for me too. I guess it depends a bit on age. Relevant picture:

(i find it in a few minutes)

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[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I get that completely.

Even though I do feel more okay with eating a bunch, I too feel people are overhyping this orgasm thing. Like, ew, no thanks. Literally every time I decide Okay, the time has come again, I should probably do it now I think Woah, I could be programming something interesting now, but no, my body wants to fuck. Great.

I do understand the connection to eating things too though. It feels unnneccessary and like some thing you just gotta do sometimes cuz u gotta do it I guess.

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Spoken like we share a brain. "ok but I could be productive"

Tho I do feel like it might be a little better if I would get bottom surgery but that's quite a bit in the future. For now i'm just happy that estro killed almost all of my drive.

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh I hope it does for me too... I don't have it yet tho, I'm on my way :(

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

I know that pain, that feeling of helplessness while waiting for stupid appointments and paperwork while knowing that your entire body is filled with hormones that slowly drive you into insanity. But you know what? Even if it takes as much as another year, it's nothing in comparison to the lifetime you'll have with the correct hormones.

I believe in you sister, you got this!

[–] TheGingerNut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Hello fellow asexual ARFID person

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I didn't know ARFID was something that existed...

I just internalized the fact that I'm anorexic because everyone told me I am but without any psychologist/therapist ever diagnosing me with it. Thank you so much for showing me that something that describes me so perfectly exists ;-;

[–] TheGingerNut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

The power of community is real hey