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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

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[–] kewwwi@lemmy.world 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 30 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Too adhd/social anxiety ridden to go out and meet people, apps are terrible, but it's for the best, because one of the very few times I actually had contact with someone they gave me herpes, and I'm way too depressed to be around. So, uh, yeah, I need help but it's not like anyone really can help. It'd be lovely to be intimate with someone again but I'd feel bad for anyone I let close enough for that. Sorry, overly depressing, you just kinda caught me during a crash and I'm desperate to let it out somewhere.

[–] brrt@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I feel you with everything you wrote. My theoretical take on “I’d feel bad for anyone I’d let close..” is that

  1. You might a better person than many, because many people do not think about the impact of their actions on others
  2. Everyone is doing things for themselves. Just be honest with them and yourself and try not to hurt anyone in the process as best as you can.
  3. It’s a very nice rationalization for not having to try at all. It’s easier to just mope by yourself :D

What to do with all of this? Who knows… The struggle is real.

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Thank you for your kind reality check. I know it's not as bad as it feels... The problem is the feeling is part of the barrier.

[–] brrt@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago

Yeh, I know. This is as much of a reality check for me as it is for you.

I need to constantly remind myself that other people struggle too, they might just not show it.

It’s ok to have those feelings and to have that barrier. But peek over it from time to time, maybe there’s someone there peeking over theirs.