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[–] octopus_ink@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

And yes these same rules apply to someone who grew up hearing the US is an imperialist bully state.

I didn't grow up hearing that, but I mean...

I see your point, and I hope I succeed in assuming people are interacting in good faith until shown otherwise most of the time, but at a certain point people also need to be responsible for questioning the narratives they have always accepted without having to be stroked and petted into doing so. (They are both the "party of personal responsibility" and also the "fuck your feelings" party, after all.)

I grew up surrounded by rah rah USA#1 jingoism and a continuous dose of cold war propaganda in almost every bit of media I consumed. (It was the 70s/80s after all) And now I know that the US is an imperialist bully state with a lot of things in its past that folks like to try wishing out of existence rather than willingly examining.

I didn't change a bunch of my opinions because the people I used to disagree with about many (not all) of these and related topics were nice to me about it. The things that have changed have changed because I was willing to consider new information.

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh there's definitely a difference between being nice and straight up rejecting someone. You can be firm while not sending them on their way. I think the important skill we all need to learn and practice is de-escalation. It's really easy to get into this mode of defending yourself when that was never the point.

[–] octopus_ink@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

I think the important skill we all need to learn and practice is de-escalation.

I generally agree with you about this, which is probably good enough for this discussion. 🙂