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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by Binette@lemmy.ml to c/autism@lemmy.world
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Edit: I was as to negotiate with the ones organizing the meeting to schedule for another day. I may have been panicked because I stopped Prozac for a while. I'm really sorry for lashing out like that, and thank you for your understanding.

I'm trying to get my diagnosis. Due to my parents not accepting me receiving mental healthcare, I had to do everything in secret.

It made my life so much easier when I finally got Prozac. I could finally sleep. Little to no obsessions or intrusive thoughts. I also stopped having pica.

But I can't get a diagnosis in most places without involving my parents. Until I found someone who could give me one.

Thing is, if I miss tomorrow's appointment, I can no longer have another chance at it. The health system is clogged and all.

I had everything planned out. Told them I was going out and all. But now, I can't, because our basement got flooded and I have to stay in order to help them.

I know this is what I get for wanting the best of two worlds: my parents' support and getting behind their backs. But I just didn't want to keep suffering anymore. I just want it all to stop.

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[–] Binette@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (9 children)

I must specify that our culture is very very different. They think that autism is immediately linked to several cognitive deficiencies. I remember wanting to talk about the subject to my dad, and his face immediately frowned when he thought I suggested having autism. Plus when my initial doctor thought I might have some kind of neurodivergency, like ADHD, my parents immediately turned down the idea, and I haven't heard from the doctors ever since.

I have to do medical appointments with them by my side, and if not, they must know every detail about it. Doesn't matter if it's private. They'll even go as far as to share it with families and friends. Sure do love gosip.

Still, thank you a lot. I'm not sure how to express it properly, but I am thankfull that you answered.

Edit: autocorrect

[–] NegativeInf@lemmy.world 17 points 2 months ago (7 children)

Culture and tradition are just peer pressure from dead people. Your first and only obligation is to yourself. Just go. No words. Lie like there's no tomorrow if you have to.

[–] Binette@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Man if only I was a good liar XD.

I have an idea but it might backfire hard. I think I'm too much of a coward to even ask my parents to go out again.

[–] AngryPancake@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 months ago

It's easier to ask for forgiveness than for permission. I wish you all the best and good luck, I hope it works out for you!

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