this post was submitted on 04 Aug 2024
235 points (89.8% liked)

transgender

1936 readers
33 users here now

Welcome to lemmy.ml/c/transgender! This is a community for sharing transgender or gender diverse related news articles, posts, and support for the community.

Rules:

  1. Bigotry, transphobia, racism, nationalism, and chauvinism are not allowed.

  2. Selfies are not permitted for the safety of users.

  3. No surveys or studies.

  4. Debating transgender rights is not allowed. Transgender rights are human rights. Debating transgender healthcare is not allowed. Transgender healthcare is a necessity.

  5. No civility policing transgender people. Transgender people have a right to be angry about transphobia and be rude to transphobes.

  6. If you are cis, do not downvote posts. We don't like you manipulating our community.

  7. Posts about dysphoria/trauma/transphobia should be NSFW tagged for community health purposes.

  8. For both cis and trans people: Please alter your username (if possible) to include pronouns (or lack thereof, or questioning) so no one misgenders anyone. details. This rule is important for maintaining a safe place. If you can't change your ID, please let a mod know and include it in your bio.

  9. Leftist infighting is not allowed.

Please remember to report posts that break any of these rules, it makes our job easier!


If you are looking for a more secure and safe trans space, we suggest you visit https://hexbear.net/c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns. While we will try our best, lemmy.ml/c/transgender is far more open to the fediverse, and also to trolls. One of the site admins of lemmy.ml, nutomic, is also a transphobe, while hexbear is ran mostly by trans people and has a very active trans community.

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
 

I'm calling for https://lemmy.ml/u/Beaver@lemmy.ca, the most prolific user of the transgender comm here on lemmy.ml, to be immediately unbanned and nutomic to be removed as admin. It is good and correct to leak the DMs of transphobes.

@dessalines@lemmy.ml @JoeBidet@lemmy.ml @cypherphunks

edit: you can find more info from kristinas post here and beavers post here

edit 2: proof, also beaver was banned from the whole instance modlong

edit 3: For trans people looking for a safer instance, I suggest Hexbear. They have a very active trans user base and are extremely supportive.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] Valmond@lemmy.world -4 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Thanks! I knew there was something rotten in that instance. Wanting to dismantle the west, indeed, a very pro LGBT stance they have. Good luck being LGBT in one of the fine dictatorships like Russia (where trans is seen as a mental disease, probably the most lenient of those dictatorships, in Iran it's a death sentence).

Yeah I'll keep myself at beehaw and leave hexbear to the pro dictator fachos.

[–] amberSuperMario@lemmy.ml 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Lol yeah the west is so pro LGBT. Just ignore the hundreds of proposed anti-trans bills in the USA, or the mass incarceration/prison violence towards trans people, or the widespread medical gatekeeping, or the fact that being LGBT (especially T) makes you way more likely to be homeless, or how even the supposedly left Labour Party has taken a huge rightward swing under Queer Harmer. If you actually think there’s any hope of freedom for LGBT people in the western world you are a fucking idiot. Go read a book and you might yet be able to pull the worms out of your brain. Rainbow Solidarity in Defense of Cuba by Leslie Feinberg is a great one if you want to see what a country actually trying to improve the lives of LGBT people looks like.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world -1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Ooh an anti trans bill vs death sentenc. What is worst??! Are you deluded or paid off to tell all this bs lol.

You're all hate too, stay at hexbeer please.

[–] amberSuperMario@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

not paid, just an american trans woman who’s tired of suffering in this piece of shit country, and sick to death of chauvinistic pigs like you.

stay at hexbeer please.

no. i’ll say whatever i want to scum bags like you. deal with it.

[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

where trans is seen as a mental disease

Until extremely recently that was also the case in the states, as in, before informed consent became a thing I couldn't get HRT without a doctors note saying I'm mentally ill and fuckable enough, and even then it was sterilization first and having to pay out of pocket for tons of shit.

Also Iran post islamic revolution was one of the few places you can get a binary transition- it's still pretty fucked up, but not a death sentence by any measure.

I wish that Russia was less shitty about being trans so I could visit family more safely, it's not been made better by having my identity turned into a cultural wedge issue.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world -2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yeah but today I'm staying in Europe, and would prefer USA over Russia or Iran.

Shame about Iran, it was so west before the take over.

[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

I think you misunderstood me, after the islamic revolution they allowed for binary transitions. edit: citation

Yeah but today I’m staying in Europe, and would prefer USA over Russia or Iran.

I'm sure that you would, I'm just letting you know as a trans person that the US has been pretty shit for quite some time unless you have money. Even in blue states employment discrimination is rampant and I literally know people being forced to move to less-safe states because they can't afford to live in blue states.

Seeing that in my everyday life while the US poses as some sort of monolithic protector of LGBT rights is just insulting.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world -1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yeah because Russia and Iran are so cozy for LGBT people.

Travel the world, it's eye opening.