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[–] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 7 points 8 hours ago (18 children)

Friend said let's meet at 1. I ask her if she's sure. She says yes. It's 1:46 and I'm still waiting for her. I knew I should've arrived at 2. She waited a million years for a bus so she didn't have to walk, when she could've walked. Grr.

[–] Duenan@aussie.zone 4 points 8 hours ago (8 children)

Did she have the courtesy to say that she'll be late?

Think it's a bit rude as well making you wait due to walking/bus thing.

[–] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 5 points 8 hours ago (4 children)

Yep she said she was still in bed when I arrived.

[–] Nath@aussie.zone 12 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

"Another time, then"

Meeting her anyway sends the signal that you're fine with being such a low priority in her world. And she'll have no incentive to alter her behaviour next time.

[–] TinyBreak@aussie.zone 5 points 7 hours ago

100% agree with this.

[–] bacon@aussie.zone 6 points 7 hours ago

That would be a won’t meet ever again for me

[–] Duenan@aussie.zone 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Hm still not great.

Hopefully it's not a consistent thing that happens all the time.

[–] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 4 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

It is but this is the worst it has been. I'm not waiting anymore

[–] Duenan@aussie.zone 2 points 8 hours ago

Since you're out already treat yourself out to something?

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