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Probably an overshare, but I'm angry
My grandma is too far gone with the religion and political stuff, and I think it's time for me to stonewall her. She lives next door, which will make it a bit hard, but I don't want to put up with her bullshit anymore. During COVID, she got so into religion that she tells us we're going to hell for not believing. All day, everyday, she sits on her butt, watching YouTube videos about religion and people converting to her religion. She has not many friends, only goes to church and the supermarket, likes my aunt's dogs more than she likes her own grandchildren and refuses to put in any effort with my younger cousins because their mother chose to keep in contact with her cheating father after my grandma and him got divorced. She doesn't believe the priests or other clergy members could do anything wrong. Called Kamala a demon and said that she would make the US a communist country. And America will be saved, Trump is Christian yada yada yada. Absolutely no critical thinking skills whatsoever.Brutal. When they get that deep it's practically impossible to pull them out; they don't believe they need saving. My mum is the same, though non-denominational
Sorry to hear that Spud. That must suck, especially with a parent.
Eh I just meant more I get the feeling of dread lol, interacting with people like that is so exhausting, especially when it's a family member. If you can't go low/no contact or don't want to, then grey rocking is best. Don't engage with political or religious conversation with them, and if they start it, then change the subject and give very little info about your opinions away.
I'm sorry your Gran is deep in it, it hurts. Remember to look after yourself too, and put yourself first π