It has to be connection lost.
Mom only has power over a subset of younger gamers.
Being annoyed with someone else's skill is a personal issue, bad players are a given in open multiplayer and forgiven if they are your friend.
Fps tends to be stable per game. Either you have enough to play in way you accept or you don’t.
But connection lost is like being smitten by the gods, you cant predict when it will happen and it always means game over.
Thats just fps issues/connection lost with extra steps.