I would get a late-model Toyota and call in via the SOS button to disable the telematics. It's a documented process and isn't like pulling teeth. A company that respects through-and-through doesn't really exist.
Find a model that has what you want and doesn't use any phone apps.
The car itself is more important. You can trade powertrain dependability for a nicer interior with a Kia, you can get superior packaging in a Honda, etc. Options also vary between trims, etc.
ugh I remember my last straw on Facebook was my high school alumni group becoming a shit-storm of sea-lioning and a couple folks blocking people and also spamming nostalgia-posts to drown out and push down more serious discussion. A high school famous for it’s science-focus but alas, the older (but not much older) folks were openly commenting about that black-people-crime-percentage “statistic” and gay people.