meneervana

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[–] meneervana@lemm.ee 1 points 13 minutes ago

So the girl is wrong for not wanting to be sexually objectified by a random stranger...? If you knew how much women are harrassed and objectified all the god damn time when going out, you would know that being polite to these guys only sends them the wrong signals and makes them think that you are interested and they have a chance, and will make things worse. The core problem with these incel guys is that they feel totally entitled to a womans body and attention. They aren't! Yes everyone deserves a happy and healthy relationship with others and social connections, but these guys are so bitter that they literally think spending 30 dollars on a beer should give them access to a girl. If they would genuinely want to just have a conversation with them he wouldn't have drawn the conclusion that he stated at the end. He wouldn't have to feel that rejected. It's because he was there especially to find a girl to date, that the girl couldn't live up to his expectations.

Women aren't objects to obtain or fuck. And honestly most women get harrassed and stalked and get unwanted attention from men so much that they sense the intentions of these guys immediately.

[–] meneervana@lemm.ee 3 points 2 hours ago

You're literally telling us that you did actually put in a ton of labour, so it's not completely passive

[–] meneervana@lemm.ee 1 points 2 hours ago

Fahrenheit is bullshit, just learn celsius

[–] meneervana@lemm.ee 1 points 2 hours ago

Sorry Pink Floyd is my favourite band and I totally do not feel like a boring person 😂

[–] meneervana@lemm.ee 2 points 2 hours ago

In my experience dog owners often like to control another being, cat owners like to just let others be.

[–] meneervana@lemm.ee 12 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Sadly new Doc Martens don't have steel toes anymore :'(

[–] meneervana@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yes, I am being treated by a neurologist. I have tried a lot of meds and sadly none really seemed to help long term.

[–] meneervana@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

Could go both ways, but really the change has to come from within, they will have to change this in the end

[–] meneervana@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Do you think he will actually do that, or is it just an empty threat?

 

As the title says. For me it's always the same: at first, my boss is understanding, but when I miss work because of a migraine for the 15th time, that compassion kind of dulls away... At some point, they start complaining that I am unreliable and they always seem to be waiting for when I get better, as if there is a cure for this chronic condition.

I always feel like somehow it is my fault for being sick and I feel like I let my team down even though I know it's the last thing I want.

How do you guys cope with it? What do you tell your boss? How do coworkers view you? Any tips and tricks are always welcome!

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