I feel the need to remind you that many members of the LGBT+ community have rebuked all preferred pronouns. Take for example Lily Cade and the other lesbians in the BBC's infamous article, "We're being pressured into sex by some trans women". Lily Cade in fact called for the lynching of trans women.
The queer community is no monolith. There are transphobes within the community who refuse to be associated with trans people like Me, and want us pushed out of the movement, denied healthcare, driven to suicide, or indeed even lynched. I do not think you should be basing your opinions of trans people on what these bigots say.
I have reported your comment for deliberate misgendering, and I am asking you once again to edit your comment to use a trans person's preferred pronouns. This is so that you have every opportunity to do the decent thing, and so that if you do not want to act decently, your intent in this abuse is clearly demonstrated.
Thank you!
Even if you look at a neo-nazi group like the Proud Boys, the name is actually ironic. Their leader based the name on the Aladdin song Proud Of Your Boy, which he hates. McInnes thinks that Aladdin having emotions of pride and shame related to his role as a mother's son is fake and bad. "Real men" don't feel emotions about their identities or relationships. Nazis think the idea of a man feeling proud of who he is is a joke, worth mocking. The conservative man is expected to repress questions like "who am I" and "am I a good person". Those sorts of questions are for women and lefty snowflakes .
The conservative man only has a cultural identity (race, nationality, religion, occupation, sex), no personal identity. Gender identity and sexuality, being defined by the individual, are not acceptable identities for a conservative to have. Vegan and religious convert also fall under the category of chosen identity and are also hated or ignored. When you call a conservative cisgender, you are putting a choice in their hands. You're saying "you get to choose your gender identity and here is the name of your choice. Your choice is an important part of who you are". That's terrifying. That's responsibility. That's freedom. That's prompting the conservative to ask "who am I", and that question is a taboo. Elon Musk doesn't want to be cisgender because he doesn't want to be responsible for who he is. He wants society to choose for him. He wants male to be the only option for him. Elon Musk only wants to be proud of what's happened to him, he doesn't know how to be proud of who he is and he doesn't like being asked to feel that way. And to be fair, if you got Elon Musk to seriously ask "am I a good person", he'd realise the answer is no and panic. He's made choices that mean he can never actually be proud of himself except in a shallow, superficial way. Most conservatives have made those kinds of choices. Continuing to live in a world without pride means they don't have to face the monumental task of reclaiming theirs.