CoderKat

I saw a YouTube video once where they could only use dirty/rude words. https://youtu.be/_PRlIZCI6uE?si=2ZnK2wfc7Vzz4rHb

Makes the game painfully difficult and required lots of passing. Still more exciting than legit scrabble, though. I hate the game and even more so because I was forced to play it by family (for whom scrabble is apparently the most fun board game they know) far more times than I'd like.

Maybe it'll be able to revive some? Though there's still the issue of smaller communities being fragmented because of being spread across many instances (without any software support to make that easier to work with).

Yeah. I don't know what these "just post" types think it's like. I tried making some relatively niche posts early on, trying to spark discussion in communities for some games I was playing. Got a single digit number of comments at most. Sometimes none. Small communities don't get seen and niche posts in bigger communities are less likely to get votes. It feels very discouraging if you spend 30 minutes to make a post that seemingly nobody even sees.

Some folks here don't seem to want to hear it because they badly want Lemmy to be better (and I kinda get that), but where niche communities are concerned, Reddit is unfortunately better.

Also, the "jUsT PoSt" replies are acting like everyone wants to post. Not everyone does and we shouldn't be acting like they're idiots because they don't want to be the one to make the posts. It's perfectly valid to want to read other people's posts. There's also some stuff you just can't post and expect it to work. Eg, I read episode discussions on Reddit. Those can really only take off if you post them immediately when the episode airs. It feels like only Star Trek has those here. For every other show, I just go back to Reddit.

Yeah. I worry every day that there'll be an article on the front page that says Israel actually did nuke Gaza. It's a very real concern given how things are going.

Is simply having/taking drugs even child endangerment? Sure, the stereotype of a drug addict is someone wildly neglecting their kids, but I can totally imagine ways that someone could use drugs while still being a good parent. It's not like every drug user is an addict. Drugs aren't all the "pass out while your kids go hungry" type either (stimulants like cocaine are basically the exact opposite of that).

The mere existence of drugs shouldn't mean anything.

Even in a world where workers fully own all the means of production, we're gonna have a lot of jobs that just have to be done and are only done for the pay. Communism's interpretation varies wildly, but usually money is still a thing -- nobody claims all types of work should be paid equally, just that all work should pay living wages and it shouldn't be disproportionately going to investors or the people at the top. There's obviously still gonna be retail jobs, manual labour, and dirty work. Paying well doesn't make them not work.

So yeah, the post is kinda bullshit. That said, it is better to go to work if you're getting a living wage out of it, but you're probably still gonna hate Mondays.

“We are acting with full transparency whilst maintaining the safety of our troops and operational readiness.”

Uh huh. Yup. Sure you are.

Who's better known for their "full transparency" than the IDF?

Find local groups. Two notable ones for me are that I found a discord for my city for people looking for friends (which means stuff like regular board game events and the likes) and the kink community (ie, fetlife) regularly does similar (you don't treat that one as a dating site, but rather a way to find real life events where you meet people).

There's probably various other ways to find real life meetups that aren't for the explicit purpose of meeting people to date, but will find em anyway. Casual sports leagues, hobby oriented groups, co-workers, etc.

Yeah, I make hella good lasagna and have never used a white sauce in it. It's always been a red sauce. Just a ton of cheeses like you say ("some" is an understatement lol).

Yeah. A smidge under 4 GB and it's was a five figure cost? That is complete bullshit. We all know the actual costs are miniscule. It's mad price gouging because most people don't need to roam and thus they can can prey on it. It shouldn't be possible to get anywhere close to that kinda bill without multiple explicit approvals where the costs are clearly communicated (I can't tell if they were).

I also really hate the meme of nerds not having sex or relationships. I'm a software dev that works with the nerdiest people I've ever met. The vast majority of my coworkers are married or in long term relationships. I'm active in the kink community and have a number of coworkers I see there too. My experience is that nerds are very common in the kink community. I mostly date and fuck fellow nerds and as far as I can tell, they're mostly doing alright, too.

The stereotype from the meme is just self deprecation bordering on toxicity and incel-ness. The only place where "nerd" is still an insult or bad thing is in Disney channel movies, which are eternally stuck in 90s stereotypes, where people nerds are supposed to remove their glasses and let their hair down if they want to be found hot (ps: that is a terrible trope, because glasses are extremely hot).

Many of whom seem straight up worse. Trump is awful, but at least he's mostly incompetent at even achieving his own goals. The idea of having someone like Trump but competent is utterly horrifying. DeSantis, in particular.