BenVimes

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[–] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 5 points 6 months ago

Well, there's the fact that outrage seems to drive more activity than other types of content. YouTube sees it as a more profitable option to advertise a Very Angry Gamer(tm) to you, even if you aren't interested. I guess they assume that you'll find something to watch anyhow, but if they will profit even more of they can hook you into the outrage machine.

Then there's my personal hypothesis that in order to enable this, YouTube's algorithm weights your demographics, subscriptions, and viewing history much more heavily than your manual inputs.

[–] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 3 points 7 months ago

My wife and I had this conversation the other day. Our kid is only two right now, but as we've learned, these milestones sneak up on you.

I used my own life as a guide to my opinion, and so landed on age eight or so. That's around the age I remember being able to go to the park or to a friend's house within the neighbourhood on my own.

Other questions about how much functionality the phone would have and how much access they would have to it at home are still to be determined.

[–] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 16 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

One huge advantage Larian had was years of experience making games in this genre, and I doubt many other studios have that sort of corporate knowledge. Obsidian may be the only sizable one that comes close. Maybe Beamdog too, as they are responsible for the Enhanced Editions of all the old Infinity Engine games, including some original content.

[–] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 47 points 7 months ago (3 children)

At least last time I donated blood in my country (Canada), you could discretely indicate "do not use" by applying a different sticker to the bag. This was done in case someone got peer pressured into donating but didn't want to reveal something private that would have disqualified them otherwise.

[–] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

It was one of four games I backed on Kickstarter years ago, and now it is the last one to come out. I haven't played Suikoden, so I only know vaguely what to expect. I do hope I like it more than the other games I supported, though.

[–] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 2 points 7 months ago

I see where the disconnect is now.

I, and presumably others, associate obsession with religious minutiae with religious fervour. I have a lot first hand experience with this, as some of the most ardent Christians I knew were also the ones who were eyeballs deep in apologetics and church history (and also adult converts). It makes a certain amount of logical sense too, as you wouldn't expect a casual church-goer to care that much about all that.

With that in mind, it isn't a big leap to connect the original post to the phenomenon of the zeal of the convert.

What it comes down to, then, is that the original post has more than one layer to it. Rather than focus on the difference between charity and dogmatism, I chose instead to highlight contrast between the simplicity [of charity] and the convolution [of dogmatism]. Once again, my personal experiences informed the way I approached this post.

[–] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 2 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I'm completely lost. How and when did this become about religious people behaving badly? I am 99.9% sure that the point of the original topic was a commentary on how recent converts tend to be more enthusiastic about their faith than people raised in the church, regardless of what the individual beliefs actually are. The example beliefs from the original post ("feed the poor" and "women shouldn't drive") are just examples to help characterize this dichotomy in an amusing way.

In fact, that second example, about women and driving, is almost certainly not an actual Catholic doctrine. Any search for the full phrase leads only to reposts of this image, and I'd wager it was made by just stringing together some Christian buzzwords for humorous effect. While I don't doubt some Catholics do believe women shouldn't drive, I also very much doubt they'd use the phrasing and justification found in the original post.

[–] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (4 children)

Why would I need to be more specific about the different branches of Catholicism? The author in the screenshot doesn't do that either. They simply point out their observation that lifelong Catholics tend to value broad teachings that aren't necessarily specific to Catholicism, while adult converts become fanatical about doctrinal minutiae. In other words, the former is relaxed about their faith, while the latter is zealous.

I then related that to my own experiences, where someone who is raised in a belief system tends to be less aggressive about those beliefs than someone who converts to later in life - i.e. the "zeal of the convert." This observation isn't exclusive to Catholicism, it's just being made into relation to it in this instance. This phenomenon isn't even exclusive to religion, as one can observe it with political beliefs as well.

I don't think anything here requires a differentiation between branches of Catholicism, because the observations are about the act of converting, not about what specific belief system the converts moving to and from.

[–] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (7 children)

The "belief" in this case is Catholicism.

[–] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 111 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (18 children)

I'd say this is part of the "zeal of the convert" phenomenon, where someone who converts to a belief tends to be more fanatical than someone raised in that belief.

There's probably bias in this observation, as a couple of very loud people can drown out dozens of others and make a trend seem more prevalent than it actually is, but I also have personal experience here.

[–] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 10 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I mean, I didn't develop my own musical taste until my mid-20s. My parents only played Christian worship music, while all my friends in highschool and university were various flavours of music snob. I was literally convinced that no one actually liked pop music because everyone I knew seemed to hate it.

I don't know if I was ever a "people pleaser," in that I never pretended to like a band or song just because everyone else did. However, I definitely avoided saying anything negative about the music I was exposed to for fear that I'd be ostracized all the same.

It took me a long time to overcome all that, and it took even longer to admit my tastes publicly.

[–] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 7 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I'm glad someone else is saying this. I find the constant toxicity surrounding Disney era Star Wars to be much more tiring than the actual Disney movies and shows - and that's with Rise of the Skywalker being quite possibly my least favourite Star Wars thing ever.

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