Don't buy them new. They are like 500% markup from consumer cards for not much performance.
Try to get 2 year old ones, from businesses that sell them at the end of warranty (or liquidation sales). You'll probably have to buy the whole tower with it but you can usually flip it.
That being said, have you tried passing your 3090 to a VM and the VM has the new drivers for it? You would get poor graphical output performance but compute is compute.
Also: quattro cards usually only have displayport, or even mDP. Be mindful of any adapters you may need.