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[โ€“] artvandelay@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The problem is exploitation which can and does happen in every industry. Sex work is no exception to that rule. Nobody is saying amazon needs to be abolished because of how they treat their workers. But some people see one industry or another as being inherently exploitative.

[โ€“] AnyOldName3@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Plenty of people are calling for Amazon to be stopped, whether it's by being broken up in a trust-busting operation, fined to the point of bankruptcy for various things including illegal exploitation of its employees, or as an extreme example, starving former Amazon employees simply eating Jeff Bezos. Whether or not someone agrees, and whether they think it applies to brothels, multinational mega-corporations, or any other category of business, it's not a particularly controversial take that some kinds of business are inherently too exploitative of their employees, and should therefore be unable to legally exist.

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[โ€“] Waraugh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 year ago

See, I thought you were heading a different direction, and Amazon most certainly should get into sex work.

[โ€“] SpicaNucifera@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It grosses me out, but as long as they're not shitty to the sex worker and the sex worker isn't being abused by a pimp, and everyone consents, it's none of my damned business.

[โ€“] gigachad@feddit.de 10 points 1 year ago

Sex work is legal where I live. Nevertheless there is a lot of crime related to the sex work sector, human traficking, sexual abuse of minors, gangs etc. However I think it would be much worse if it was not regulated in anyway. My personal opinion - I would rather live in a world without it. Personally I would never go to a hooker. Most important thing though is that sex workers can decide for themselves and are not forced to do sex work (may it physical force, drug addiction or just no other way financially)

[โ€“] OceanSoap@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago

I mean, it just depends on why. I don't look down on it as a whole, but if you're in a relationship and doing it on the side, I think you're a scumbag. That would go for women, too though.

I personally wouldn't date a man who's into that, I'd be too worried they'd indulge while we're together, and that's a hard no for me.

[โ€“] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I believe a lot do not care whether the sex worker really does the job as a free decision. I think even more have no respect for sex workers. A few do not see sex workers as people, but rather as usable bodies. A few go to sex workers because they are misogynists. I think a few use it to be unfaithful towards their partners without their partners having the same opportunities.

[โ€“] MonkderZweite@feddit.ch 7 points 1 year ago

No opinion. Not my business.

[โ€“] fratermus@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 1 year ago

What is your opinion on men that make use of sex worker services?

Same as any other business transaction.

[โ€“] rikudou@lemmings.world 7 points 1 year ago

Why not. As long as no one suffers, it's fine by me. It's a transaction like any other. Just be a decent human being (which applies in every context) and I won't think any less of you.

[โ€“] bquintb@midwest.social 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I've got to get around to learning how to do this... it's so much easier just to wank and move along with your day.

[โ€“] Driftking@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago

Disposable income and need for intimacy lol. Some things are not just about the sexual pleasure but fulfilling specific fetishes

Think of the local economy

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