Reddit Migration

I hope it stays like this.

The beauty of Lemmy/Kbin is that instances will naturally form multiple alliances with each other. Racist instances will form alliances with each other, and respectful instances like Lemmy.world will form alliances with respectful instances. Think of instances as countries.

Already, Lemmy.world defederared with the racist instance Exploding Heads: https://lemmy.world/post/747912

This thread has been great for cultivating my block list, thanks OP

I will fully admit that I went to some of those alternatives, and left because I'm just not interested in seeing extreme hate for people I don't actually hate.

I think the difference right now is that the people being driven off of Twitter aren't just the lunatic fringe, it's a lot of normal people.

Tmi, but when I was young my parents got a divorce, and so I end up in a situation where I was walking on eggshells because if I said the wrong thing to either one of them it would cause a civil war and I would have to deal with consequences of that. I ended up constantly watching every single word that I said, and it was really bad for me. It wasn't until much later on in life that I realized that I could open up to people and I wouldn't get in trouble when they saw who I was. For that reason, I'm extremely sensitive to free speech issues. Not because I want to go off and hate on anyone, but because I'm here to explore ideas, and sometimes when you're exploring ideas you have to step away from the orthodoxy. I don't want to go back to those days where I was carefully calculating every word to make sure I didn't piss somebody off and start a civil war.

On the other hand, a lot of the people who left don't have my story, and they left because they weren't able to talk shit about Jews anymore. And because of that, not only did freedom of speech get a bad name but those websites weren't really very nice to be on. If you're being totally honest, you ended up with the exact same problem because instead of watching out if you are starting to criticize a minority, you have to start watching out if you are about to praise a minority. The world is a complicated place you might have to do both you, you know?

So I think it's a good thing that finally the spaces are starting to get filled up by people who yearn for freedom, not so they can be a jerk but because they just want to be free to be themselves and to do so using the tools that they desire.

As long as it doesn't descend into extreme far left buffoonery, I think I'm happy. Then again, I've come to realize that regardless of personal political beliefs, it's the buffoonery that's the big issue. People who can do nothing to make real change take things entirely too far in arguments with others who are similarly powerless. The problem is that we've been so manipulated and driven so far apart that what seems like common sense and basic human decency to one side of the aisle is radical buffoonery to the other. I don't see a fast solution to that. Rebuilding connection across the country will take elections that everyone trusts, electing officials who work towards bipartisan solutions and the service of the public good rather than an agenda. Too bad I don't see the major parties being interested in that.

Then again, I'm of the opinion that we should go back to at least one element of our original system - the president shouldn't have a slate in place for election, so that whoever takes #2 in the popular vote becomes VP.