If you have had a "crush" on someone for a decade and have not been able to move on you need to cut them out forever. It's unhealthy behavior and likely holding you back. Cut the cord, move on.
this post was submitted on 16 Sep 2023
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Why are you putting yourself in this awkward situation? It sounds like you are harbouring some hope that you will get into a relationship with him.
Accept that you probably will be embarrassed and awkward. Try to not push your feelings on him and don't try to make awkward comments about it. Don't try to loose yourself in what-ifs and don't hope that anything will happen.
You'll probably be fine.
Oh and when he asks you why you are awkward or embarrassed, you can just be honest about it, but try to make it plain and not be dramatic about it.
I will just say this: crushes fucking suck. If I had a super power, I would like for it to be the ability to uncrush on someone.
I think the best way is to remove them from your life. You are probably well aware of this already.
But hey, it could be worse. Your crush could be straight.