When a person says this, sometimes even if they do it in a positive tone, it's usually a way to verbalize more concrete concerns that you should address. For example, they might feel that you are always dismissing their opinions, that you don't listen to them in general, or they would simply like to get support when they express their views in a group so they get some recognition. In any case, they feel like you can do something to help but may not feel comfortable to express it or may not have fully identified it. If that person is important to you, you should be able to see what they want and take action.
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Is it valid criticism? Do you focus more on winning the argument than finding the truth?
Considering they're asking us how to win at such a dialogue, I've got to say, probably.
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"Really?" "What makes you say that?"
Don't
Stop
I don't "have to" anything. It just often works out that way.
Related: if they call you a smartass, a retort I like is "I'd rather be a smartass than a dumbass"🤷
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“No u”
Thank you
"Correct"
Honestly, just punch them in the face. Bitches gotta bitch
Waiting for op to say the last word to everyone commenting
Somewhat related...
For people that say they do stupid stuff simply because they have the right to, I say this in return:
"Well I have the right to wipe my ass with a pinecone, but that doesn't mean it's the right thing to do."
"I do try"