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When is it the right time to give up? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 9 hours ago by TokenEffort@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] TokenEffort@sh.itjust.works -1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Everyone else does between 15 and 19, they have their own houses and cars they bought with their jobs, yet I'm almost 30 and I have nothing. Everyone else is getting married at 23. At 30 I'll still be trying to move out just like I will be at 50, and 80, and after retiring I'll still be trying to move out by gambling or grinding online stuff until I die in the house I'll stuck in. Might as well cut my losses.

[–] tedvdb@feddit.nl 6 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

Everyone else does between 15 and 19 No they don't. It just looks like it. At 30 the things they found important at 18 aren't important anymore. Priorities shift.

Everyone else is getting married at 23 I literally know no-one that was married at 23.

At 30 I’ll still be trying to move out Just like a lot of people of this generation. They are fucked by housing prices.

So you're not alone in this. I think most people are in a similar situation. Try to find people that can support and help you. Just don't give up, you never know what happens tomorrow.